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A journey of spiritual balance

Posted on 17 January 2009 by Halima Khatun

Mecca via Wall Street

I’ve always been a fan of trying something new and making new friends along the way.  Moving to Manchester, I did my fair share of networking, and fair play, met some great friends who are always up for a Nando’s.  But as things fell into a routine, work, gym, and the odd bit of socialising, I felt that I needed something more. And so I stumbled across Mecca via Wall Street, an event that promised to present solutions to life’s journey, answering questions that puzzle all of us in times of self-doubt:

  1. Who am I?
  2. What is the purpose of my life?
  3. Does my career weaken my religious identity?
  4. Am I pretending to be someone that I am not?
  5. Does being religious mean the end of having fun?
  6. Can I be religious without being labelled an extremist?
  7. Why don’t my elders understand me?

Ok, the first two questions were a little too deep for me to find the answers to in one evening, but the rest addressed issues that I toyed with on more than one occasion.

Never mind being a British Muslim, being a British Asian can sometimes be hard work.  Growing up, I was practically the ‘only brown in the village’, and it was often tough going when you were one of the few not downing cider at the age of 14 in the park. Unfortunately, the speaker, a fantastically powerful and eloquent Shaykh Faizul Aqtab Siddiqi - founder of the Hijaz Group, which organised the event - couldn’t draw upon this issue in great detail, as many of the audience, first generation Asians themselves, couldn’t relate to such a futile predicament.  Instead Shaykh Siddiqi focussed on the subject of integration and balance between Islamic faith and corporate greed.  He referred to how we are constantly working, working, working, for little return.  Shaykh Siddiqi talked of how our parents, work so hard to build houses we hardly live in, and crucially, how our parents slave away to build a house in the homeland, that they can only really enjoy in death.  The murmuring of agreement in the hall proved that most guests, myself included, echoed his sentiments.

Shaykh Siddiqi, a strong advocate of community cohesion, talked of how we needed to do more for our neighbours, not just our Asian friends.  He mentioned how he now only works two days a week, and spends the rest working in the community and spending time with family (an example I couldn’t follow on my current salary).  Shaykh Siddiqi’s words did bring a few home truths to however.  After all, far too many of us (and our elders are guilty of instilling this virtue) think that if we pray, fast when necessary, and hold down a successful job, our work here is done.  Yet we pay little attention to the homeless in the street, or look the other way when someone looks lost or in distress.  Society doesn’t actively encourage cohesion, so we keep ourselves to ourselves.  Somehow it’s better that way, safer.   But perhaps if we didn’t turn the other cheek, there’d be less antisocial behaviour, less Islam-phobia, and an all round nicer environment.

Mecca via Wall Street is currently being held at venues across the country.  For further information, please visit http://www.meccaviawallst.com/


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5 Comments For This Post

  1. AK Says:

    Some beautiful sentiments expressed here by sister Halima. Indeed Islam brings far more to life with its teachings of community goodwill, the balance between work and life and our various roles of father/brother/son/professional/imam/friend, etc - rather than the one-dimensional focus that most of us tend to lead. The Prophet was multi-dimensional and he achieved this by strict adherence to what he preached; the message of Allah.

    Unfortunately, many of us so-called “British Muslims” (a notion which is actually very divisive amongst the Ummah - ) seem to think that we can fulfil this multi-dimensional role without strictly adhering to the message of Allah, hence we “integrate” against Islam - yet perversly we claim to be doing this FOR Islam?

    i.e we fight against Muslims by joining the British Army, claiming that this is for the sake of Muslim integration?
    - we buy houses based on riba & invest in haram business - claiming that this is for the improvement of our status amongst the community?

    My point is that integration itself is simply a notion, it must not be an absolute objective, for which Islam is sacrificed (even if ironically it is claimed to be FOR Islam. Otherwise, we will find ourselves behaving like the majority of the Jews who despite admitting that Zionism has nothing to do with their religion, they nonetheless succumb to its creed and its system because they THINK it fights for the cause of their religion.

    Anything we do for the sake of integration, must FIRSLY be substantiated and proved halal according to Islam - and then adopted. Otherwise it is haram and will fail us in this world as well as the next.

  2. mushroom Says:

    AK, last para - ameen!

  3. Lady M Says:

    Interesting article, which identifies one way to get out of the rat race and be a better Muslim and a better human being.

  4. Sam Says:

    Was looking forward to their Central London date. Anyone have any idea to why it was cancelled?

  5. Dr Jalil Ahmed Says:

    Assalamoalaekum

    The London Mecca Via Wall Street events have not been cancelled, just rescheduled for later in the year:

    *Due to the rising tensions in Palestine, and as the Gaza crisis deepens, there are many events and protests against the suffering of innocent human beings in the region. We hope that by rearranging our events for later in the calendar, we can help support the many events that are taking place to promote the necessity of aid this region urgently requires. To support this, the charity supporting the Mecca via Wall St events, United in Care will also be focused towards the Gaza relief effort.

    Wasalaam

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