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What makes a Muslim Woman Powerful?

Posted on 26 February 2009 by Halima Khatun

Muslim Women Power List 2009

I pondered this question when I came across the nomination stages of the Muslim Power List 2009, where we’re invited to vote for women who’ve excelled and contributed to British working life, whether it’s in the field of media, arts, business or the voluntary sector.  Such an accolade of course is long overdue, as Muslim women are often deterred from pursuing ambitious careers in favour of matrimony and family.  However, deciphering the factors that determine how powerful a woman is has proved to be a real pickle.

Is a female Muslim investment banker powerful, succeeding in a man’s world? Or perhaps a sister surgeon commands more power, saving lives on a daily basis. Or, maybe it’s our mothers, who selflessly devoted their lives to help make us who we are.

There’s no right or wrong answer, but the Power List did get me thinking.  Being a British Asian Muslim woman, I know there are certain professions which will always command more respect over others. I have a degree in English and Marketing and a PGDip in Broadcast Journalism, and I now have a fledging career in PR.  However, to most elders, and some young Desi’s, this will never have the same prestige as someone working in the field of Medicine, Accounting, or Law, despite the fact that I worked just as hard in my studies and continue to do so in my career.

The same can be said of many of my friends who followed careers in marketing or media, the latter being the very epitome of confusion for many of our parents.  Our folks tend to think that media studies involves watching a lot of TV (when in fact, we analysed movies during my A-levels), and that PR involves reading newspapers and organising glamorous events. This is because subjects such as Media, Journalism, and the arts are a new breed, yet to be embraced by much of our British Asian society, which is perhaps why you’ll see scores of Asians doctors and dentists, and only a handful of TV producers.  In fact, whilst at university, many of my peers went into their chosen fields of medicine or computing because of parental persuasion, rather than following their true ambitions.

Then there is the other reason (one that we’d rarely admit to) that many people choose conventional careers - to increase their marketability for marriage.  I hate to rinse a well-worn cliché, but it’s much easier to introduce one’s self as an Accountant rather than a Search Engine Optimisation specialist, because the former needs no explanation.  I remember rather fondly when the editor of an Asian radio station quizzed my marital status in a job interview, with a polite warning about how a career in journalism wasn’t a great choice for a young Muslim girl, as there was simply no money to be made.  He was, in fact, right; journalism paid peanuts. But I’m sure millions of other Muslim women face similar barriers to progression everyday, so it’s little wonder that the Doctor or Lawyer will always be a winner.

So in conclusion, who do you think is the more powerful Muslim woman?  The go-getting barrister, or the ground-breaking creative artworker?  Though the latter would probably get my vote, Desi society will always pick the former.


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4 Comments For This Post

  1. Marz Says:

    It’s not only Desi society who would rank careers in the arts less than acreers in medicine, law etc.

    In regards to what makes a Muslim woman powerful… it would be the same thing that makes anyone powerful. Level of influence among peers, community etc. It is a very one sided way to look at it, but unfortunately that is society all over.

  2. Meg Says:

    I think you got it all wrong.

    A powerful Muslim woman is someone who can kick @$$, most influential, has the bigger name, most well known for good deeds.

    You can get all those in any field.

  3. N Says:

    I agree with Marz and Meg, it all depends on your line of work, you can be powerful in different ways and levels. I disagree with the article in that we are not pressured into the career choices we make, our parents and elders are not as ignorant as portrayed above, its just that they dont necessarily know all the fields out there, law, medicine, accounting, teaching, etc are the core ones they are familiar with! I’m in construction and family and friends have all been very supportive about it! When Ive told them what I am studying and working, they have been very impressed and encouraging. This career choice isnt to increase my marketability for marriage, far from it, if anything it can backfire on me in that respect. Not many men out there who would be comfortable with their wife working in a male dominated environment (although that is changing) or in a position which might be higher than theirs. We are making progression! Yes I agree with you that there will never be the same prestige for a doctor and journalist but then the jobs and fields are pretty different I’m sure you would agree!!

  4. Uma Says:

    this article had a very interesting angle, on a topic constantly pursued by Inside Desi.

    I agree with you, the nature of your degree and line work does affect the esteem you are held in.

    I think the powerful Muslim/asian woman, is the one that does what makes her happy and makes her own decisions. Not the one that is influenced by cultural pressure. Regardless of your chosen field, its your excercise of choice that makes you powerful.

    I disagree with the above people who have left comments saying Muslim women who can influence others are the powerful ones. Yes, that may be the dictoinairy definition of powerful. But in my opinion and reflection of women’s issues particularly in reference to Muslim communities, the powerful ones are those who have managed to achieve jobs/lifestyles that they find fulfilling. Having a job that brands you powerful (e.g. surgeon, doctor, solicitor, teacher etc) is superficial, if its not the job that makes you happy.

    Hence, I understand how the author of the article feels empowered by her choice to become a journalist, even though this job does not get respect from the community.

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